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My name is Suhui, have a nicknamed called porkysu. simply because i like pigs and i think this name rhymes well. if u do not talk to me, you will think im cool and quiet. okie, but in fact im super chatty like a chatterbox and i love to laugh. my friends say i have a "auntie" behaviour! haha.. thats rather subjective. but anyway, im a great-listener other than a a chatter box! i love many cool stuffs and my defination of cool is a subset of unique. hahax!

B'dae: 30th Nov, sagattarius!

New Year Resolutions: To improve my CAPs but at the same time FYP! ^^

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Bao Ru

Celeste

Cha Yee

Huda

Jie Vee

Lina

Mahmudah

Marilyn

Mrs M

Mushroom

Victor

Xia Xue

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Saturday, July 12, 2008

Recently, i came up with this " Heart & Mind " theory of love...

It may be quite accurate for you...
or maybe, u haven realise it...
Personally for me, i find this theory amusing but in fact it is true and logical.

In this theory of love,
there should be 2 types of love and it can happen simultaneously...
the Heart & the Mind.

Heart:
the person u love,
may not have the ideal appearance, character u expected/ wish for...
it just seems to be fated...
the actions u carry out for the person, explains it all...
but normally u are just unaware of it...but 3rd party sees it clearly..
many just deny them....
because, thats human nature....
we are realistic, we sure do have some expectations....
must at least have looks,
or must be intellectually smart and so on....
as for the Heart approach towards cases such as,
EG.he is sooo caring towards her...how much i envy her??
despite feeling jealous, but it is naturally from the heart...
u will be feeling the prick piercing through ur heart but u will never tell anyone how u feel about it...

Mind:
here comes in with all your expectations....
despit that, they fulfilled ur criteria,
they may not be the person u are really finding for....
he/she just fulfilled ur criteria...
which makes ur brain assumes that u love him/her...
making u to feel so fascinated...
but in actualy fact, u don really love this person...
signs can tell....
u will be happy if u see him/her somewhere....
BUT u will not miss him/her so much if u don see him/her at all...
ok, then some may argue that how u explain signals of jealousy...
well, all i can say is that....again, is the brain that delivers the message...
unlike the expression from the Heart.
EG. he is sooo caring towards her...why not towards me??
then jealousy will come sparkling...
but in fact, u don really feel jealous at all...
u feel jealous because it is a common reaction to it...
trust me, u will not be very emo or sad...
but u will be whining how sad u are....

thats the difference between loving with the Heart 8 the Mind...
despite a fine, thin line drawn across them...and many people just don realise it.
but it still exists...
and if u were to focus futhur between loving with ur heart and mind, there is actually a significance difference...
and of course, personally for me, loving through heart is then considered the true love and it will definetly last longer....

if u have someone whom u admire or love or any steps to ur relationships, so is he/she ur HEART OR UR MIND???



NOTE: THERE MAY BE MANY OTHER ANALYSIS FOR IT, BUT THIS IS STRICLTY MY OWN THOUGHTS AND ANALYSIS...SO DONT GET SO ADGITATED IF U DISAGREE WITH WHAT IM ANALYSING...